Life is Beautiful...!!!

Life is a beautiful gift that needs to be cared and loved everyday. Life is not a bed of roses for anyone and its definitely better this way. Imagine if you were always happy and contented how monotonous would it get....

DADU And DIDA---My Maternal Grandparents

A while back I introduced you to my paternal grandparents and today I want to share about my maternal grandparents. They are no longer here with me but the very little time I had with them is something I will treasure for ever. I love to sit back and think about all the wonderful times I had with them......those memories are so pleasant that no words can describe it...

IF ONLY........KAASH..!!!

According to me.....the most negative phrase in English language is "IF ONLY". All of us face hard times in life and most of us fight our way out of it but are we really able to move ahead? The chains of "IF ONLY"holds us tightly

DADU and THAMMA -- My Paternal Grandparents

It will definitely be a shock to my family that I am writing something about my paternal grand-parents, why ? coz I have never seen them. They left us just a year before I was born....can anything be worse than that?!


I wanted to let you know about the small town where I have passed the first few years of my life. Its a place called JOWAI,MEGHALAYA. I have stayed there only till the 1990 yet I still remember the roads from my school "St. Mary Mazzarello High School" to my house.


So far I have introduced you to my parents, but there is one more important person without whom my family is not complete....she is my princess. I am an elder sister to many but she is the only person who calls me 'DIDIBHAI' in this whole world. She is my sweet little gem , my sister 'ANNA'.


The words of Clarence Budington Kellenda has beautifully vocalized the feeling I have for my dad. He has actually never told me how to lead my life but his actions has taught me a lot. He is the personification of the word 'WORKAHOLIC'. He is totally dedicated to his work and even forgets about his well being.


For every child his mother is the one of the most important person of their life and I am not different either.But my blogging will be incomplete if I don't introduce the lady who showed me the world.


Welcome to my very first blog...!!!!. I am so excited ....that I am lost of words. It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, but wasn’t sure how to go about with it, where, when. And finally the auspicious day has arrived. While in office today I decided that I would give a start to it,so here I am.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013


“Life is beautiful. Cherish every moment of it...Even if you're stressed or hurt or dishearten...there's always tomorrow when the sun will rise for you. Always be hopeful it will get better !!!!”......UNKNOWN AUTHOR.

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Life is a beautiful gift that needs to be cared and loved everyday. Life is not a bed of roses for anyone and its definitely better this way. Imagine if you were always happy and contented how monotonous would it get. Life is made of ups and downs, basically its the DOWNS that help us appreciate every small UPS we face in our day to day life. I have seen several times people wait for something big to happen and base their happiness on that, however I believe that it good to dream of that next big thing that would change your life but never get go off the small things. Its these small happiness that help to build a sweet and beautiful life filled with wonderful memories. 

We all know and believe that life is a one time gift and it should be lived to the fullest. However we can often find ourselves dragging it........ has anyone asked you 'Hows life?' and have you ever answered- 'Going on' or 'Pulling on'..... then you know what I am talking about. That should not be the life you build for yourself you need to live the life not pull it. We all face hard times and when you have to face it alone it gets tough - agreed - but does not mean you let life go by... all you have to do is pull up your socks and face it..... it will just be a few days of hardship and then life will become wonderful again. I agree that its easier said then done but if we don't stand for ourselves no one will. Never think you are the only one facing the hard times everyone does. Its very easy and common these days for people to give up with every onset of trouble..... but do soldiers give up so easily.... NO.... so why should we after all we are our own soldiers. 

I am no expert on this matter even I want to give up when the going gets tough, its my Mamoni who helps me a lot to fight back these tough times. So I believe look for that one person you can count on no matter how difficult the matter gets. At times we think only I can solve my problems , yes its a good attitude..... however I have always felt that talking to my support system(My Mamoni) helps me a lot. Even I deal with my problem in my own way, but when she hears me she makes me stronger to face it. Everyone can give you advice but you always need a person who just listens to you and just says -- Don't Worry , You Can Do It. So no matter where this life takes you and how difficult it gets --- think about yourself and never give up ---- LOVE OUR OWNSELF ALWAYS...!!!

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Listing a few points which I think can help everyone to LIVE their life.
  • Its ok to make mistakes, we all do . Just learn from your past mistakes, forgive yourself and move on.
  • Health is wealth. Let your health and wellness a top priority and always take care of yourself 
  • Find the humor in life and laugh as much as you can as if there is no tomorrow.
  • Find happiness within yourself , let it not be revolved around people. At the same time spend time with people who make you happy. 
  • Trust and believe in yourself and never let people’s opinions influence you too much. 
  • Be thankful for what you have instead of thinking about what you don’t have. 
  • Believe in your individuality, never compare you life with someone else's. Your life is unique like you are. 
  • Keep a check on your negative thoughts so that they don’t contribute to the outcome of your life. 
  • Be bold to face changes and accept them with open arms. Find the courage to change things that should be changed and accept that there are some things that cannot be changed. 
  • Our work life largely influence our life as a whole so love your work. If you don’t find out what you would love to do and give a start. 
  • Live in now and love the present , be aware of your thoughts and actions. Think happy thoughts and speak powerful words. 
  • Don't live your life from the sides , get on the field and face it. 
  • Not everyone will like you and those who like does you will not like everything about you. Be ok with that , that's a part of your uniqueness. 
  • Everyday do something that makes you proud of yourself. 
  • Never hold grudges against anyone and always keep moving forward. 

 P.S. : The mentioned points are something I have thought about and may not be perfect. Also in reading this if anyone is hurt ... I am sorry that's not my intention I just want to encourage myself and everyone to live their life to the fullest.